How much access should an ex have with another? Is friendship, without expectations even possible? How much advantage can one take of the other. Is the offended party obliged to keep the "friendship" going in the name of keeping the peace? What are the boundaries? Without looking back at the past, and reliving the ordeal. Can the offender be trusted to have only good intentions within this "friendship"? What would constitute as opening a door of possible second chances?False hope and the likes?
It is amazing how the offended party is expected to yield to this newly found "friendship". When previously the person wasn't good enough. But now, they're the only people who understand them. At some point they couldn't cook, yet all of a sudden dinners and lunch invites are requested. What brought about the sudden change. Could there be a bit of selfishness in this equation? It just doesn't make sense to me how someone who couldn't stand another is suddenly interested and is apparently more at ease being and talking to the very same person. Especially when there was another party involved. Has that person also become redundant that they can't perform the job that they soooo perfectly did before. I mean, their performance could well have been the cause why there's ex's now. So, how is this circle going to work out? This one today and that one the next, and its all ok as long as you perform to the expected perfection? And if not, then you have to know that another alternative will be found, I mean you yourself are one....
It saddens me really... That it is only one person who allows this to happen and therefore opens the door for the repeated cycle. So now the question is... How does one make sure that this doesn't happen without having to alter their personality. And by that I mean, being rude and cold when you are not that kind of person? Where and how do you draw the line? And when it has already started, how do you put a stop to it?
Questions and questions yes... And we need answers....
Was just thinking out loud....
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